Let’s talk about something that doesn’t get talked about enough:
Flaky friends.
You know the ones. They’re excited about the idea of taking a trip, starting a business, or going to that event—but when it’s time to follow through? Crickets.
It’s frustrating, especially when you’re someone who’s serious about your growth, your goals, and creating a life that feels aligned and fulfilling.
If you’ve ever found yourself thinking, “Where are the people who are really about that life like me?”—you’re not alone.
The truth is, a lot of us are out here trying to do life, build legacy, and grow wealth with people who don’t have the same level of commitment. But here’s the good news: you don’t have to keep doing it alone.
If you’re ready to find a circle of people who follow through, support your dreams, and show up consistently—these 3 tips will help you find your people.
1. Join Smaller, Intentional Groups
Start local.
Whether it’s a book club, a small business meetup, or a parent group in your community—spaces like these let you observe how people show up over time.
When you meet folks in more intimate settings, it’s easier to see who’s consistent, who’s supportive, and who has the margin (and mindset) to be the kind of friend or accountability partner you need.
2. Attend Conferences, Retreats & Live Events
There’s something powerful about being in the room.
When people take time out of their lives, spend money, and show up to grow—you already know they’re serious.
Events like these attract go-getters, dreamers, and doers.
You’ll find people who are building something bigger than themselves—and they’re often looking for community, too.
3. Invest in a Mastermind
Want to meet people who are not just talking about it but being about it? Look for a mastermind.
When people pay to be in a room, they’re showing you they’re invested in themselves and their goals.
Masterminds aren’t just about business—they’re about connection, alignment, and accountability.
I’ve seen members of mine travel together, close deals together, and show up for each other beyond real estate. I’ve experienced the same in masterminds I’ve joined—some of my closest friendships came from those spaces.
You Deserve Community That Feels Like Fuel
So if you’re tired of doing life solo or waiting on folks who never follow through—don’t settle.
Your people are out there. But you have to get in the right rooms.
That’s one of the reasons I created The Owning It & Living It Experience.
It’s the only real estate conference built specifically for Black and Brown professionals who are serious about building wealth and creating freedom through real estate.
This isn’t just an event. It’s a movement.
A room full of people who look like you, get your vision, and are making real moves.
✅ 20+ expert speakers
✅ Tactical strategies to start or scale your real estate journey
✅ A community of doers, not dreamers
🎟 Early Bird Tickets are available now—and VIP is almost sold out!
You’ve been asking where the real ones are.
We’ll be in the room.
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